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Dogs ride the ups and downs with us. Real life Surf Dog Diaries

Meet writer dogs. Rider dogs. Best dog friends. Surf the couch, the www, or a wave. Wave back at us!

It's all about the ride. The ride of life with a dog.

Dog paddling into the Gorge sunset. Thank God, it's just another ho-hum day in paradise.

Dog paddling into the Gorge sunset. Thank God, it's just another ho-hum day in paradise.

It’s not pretty, but he’s OK. We can talk about it now. I can breath. Dude, my majestic, lion-hearted, blind pirate surf dog, is back... (When love, a good vet and will-to-live conquer all)

Barbara Ayers August 27, 2016

Dear Dog Diary – dear dog friends and dog people:

I’ve been afraid to write, afraid to speak about it. Afraid to jinx the outcome, while my sweet old boy, my dog son Dude, came back from a traumatic head wound, three weeks ago. 

The cone is off, there’s no open wound, the swelling is gone – but he looks like a California Condor.

CA condor chick at San Diego Zoo's Safari Park captive breeding program.

CA condor chick at San Diego Zoo's Safari Park captive breeding program.

You know, those critically endangered birds with a bald pink face? I saw them up close when I worked at San Diego Zoo and that face is almost cute on chicks. On adults - not so much.

Just for the record, I think Dude is the cutest dog on the face of the Earth. Without eyes. With a condor face.

I witnessed the poetic release of condors back to the wild in the Grand Canyon. Soaring, symbolic. Conquering all. Back from the brink – from a 1980’s world population of two dozen birds, to a hundred more by the year 2000.

Dozens, flying free, soaring cliffs and raising young again in the wild. Phoenix rising.

Like my Dude.

He’s acting normal. Then again, he did all along – even with a gaping head wound and massive facial swelling.

One more challenge in a lifetime of health challenges (glaucoma, blindness, Alzheimer’s, cancer…) It didn’t phase him a bit. It sure phased me. I was afraid to leave the house. Afraid to breath. Afraid of what it might have been – and still could be.

The only thing that phased him was the cone of shame. Next time, I’m buying two more cones - one for Doodle and one for me. We’ll be the cone of shame family - proud and mighty. Talk about not so cute…

Like you, I would do anything to protect my kids. I worry about Dude all the time. He recently lost his best friend, Elvis – who was Dude’s Seeing Eye dog. There’s a hole in our hearts from the loss and no one misses Elvis more than Dude.

OK, well, maybe me.

Dude and Elvis, partners in life and surfing - with or without eyes.

Dude and Elvis, partners in life and surfing - with or without eyes.

Friends cautioned that when two dogs are so intertwined, losing one can mean the partner follows right behind. Like you hear about with married couples that have been together their whole lives.

Dude has such a sweet old soul. He’s so brave and has such a fighter spirit. It makes me fight that much harder for him. His will to live, his willpower alone was not enough to fight this thing. We needed our vet, we needed the great maker above, watching out for him.

We needed you, rooting for us.

"At the vets" by Norman Rockwell. Cover art for the Saturday Evening Post 1952.

"At the vets" by Norman Rockwell. Cover art for the Saturday Evening Post 1952.

This is me. Norman Rockwell had it right.

I have framed this old magazine cover for the wall of the dog room where Dude and Doodle live.

Nothing can prepare you for sudden trauma of a family member, right before your eyes. I found a flap of his scalp, with hair still attached, lying on the dog room floor. Blunt force trauma to my gut -  sickening shock - crippling fear.

The left side of his face was grossly swollen, with bloated, raw hamburger skin. I don't know what happened first- the injury or something that caused him to rub his head and injure himself further.

It could have been a tumor. Or a snakebite, a spider bite, a bee sting. He is blind, so he could have bumped his head in the dog run fencing. It was a gaping, gory injury and it came out of nowhere.

Luckily we have medical supplies – lots of them. Dog moms that live in the boonies, like me - have to. There’s no animal ER twenty minutes away, like the big city. If it’s after hours, there’s no local vet access.  

 
Unfortunately Dude’s Cone of Shame has been used a lot.

The next morning, a large bloodstain seeped through the thick gauze of his bandage. Our vet got us in right away - she said we needed it to “just be a snake or a spider bite.” Dogs recover from those.  

Dude struggled with glaucoma for years. He lost one eye in 2009 and another in 2010. And still, he's a rad surf dude.

Dude struggled with glaucoma for years. He lost one eye in 2009 and another in 2010. And still, he's a rad surf dude.

We had to wait and see if swelling came back after the prednisone wore off - if that happened, there was something ominous beneath the skin.

As much as you never want to know the bad news – knowing is so much easier than waiting and wondering and worrying.

I willed into being, the healing. I willed into being, the bite. I willed away the bad stuff. Dude deserved so much more than that for his last year/s of life. He is almost 14 - 98 in dog years.

Not living life the way you want to- is the hardest part of an injury. How come Dude didn’t seem to feel that way?

This is what dogs teach us. Let it go. Be free. Don’t stay in your head. Live in your heart. Don’t dwell on what-if’s. Hug your dog. Savor the day. Be in the moment. This moment is GREAT!

That’s dog 101.
The Dude is back! Last night at our home beach - Rocky Creek park.

The Dude is back! Last night at our home beach - Rocky Creek park.

The Dude is back!

This is why we live in the Columbia River Gorge National Scenic Area - amazing scenery - small town spirit. Healing energy.

We lived in a big city (San Diego, and Portland) for years. We chose small town life. People care – people who barely know you. You wouldn’t think a sick dog would make national news, but in a small town, everyone knows and everyone asks about him. Even cat people.

We’re so thankful for the day – and the gift of time.

I am happy to report that this is the only swelling that has come back – right in our front yard:

Thank you – near or far - for being there for us.

Surf dog mom Barb, with Dude, Doodle and Tia the cat

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Dude the survivor - meeting life's challenges with poise and dignity

Barbara Ayers August 6, 2016

We love our blind beagle Dude, but he hates nothing more in life than the cone of shame. If you're a pet parent, you've witnessed it firsthand. I'm not sure what's worse, the injury -- or the insult, the shame.  We carry it too, the shame, right along with them.

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We had an emergency vet visit today. Doodle on the left is worried. So am I.

We had an emergency vet visit today. Doodle on the left is worried. So am I.

Dear Dog Diary: I'm a worried sick dog mom. Please help me - help us.

Barbara Ayers August 5, 2016
Any dog mom like me, cringes at the thought of this very helpless feeling. Even though we love and trust our vet, Dr. Laura at Tucker Road Animal Hospital, we really don’t like to visit her for reasons like these.
Doodle and I are so worried about our Surf Dog Diaries senior reporter, Dude (my sweet son.)  
He suffered an unknown head injury - the vet suspects snake bite, puncture or laceration. Last night, he had a lot of swelling - it responded well to antihistamines. But according to Dr. Laura, we want this to be "just a bite" or bump-related owie, not something more ominous.
Dude keeps rubbing and re-injuring himself. I wrapped him up with lots of sterile padding and gave him pain meds.
The Cone of Shame really adds insult to injury to my poor old boy. Clearly, he thinks that’s the worst of his problems. It just makes him so mad - that darned shameful thing – it catches on everything.
I remember when he lost an eye, twice, to glaucoma surgery. Blindness didn't phase him - but he was so dang mad about the cone.
Animal lovers - please pray for Dude, or meditate, or hug your dog - whatever you believe could help us. The next couple of days are critical. Dr. Laura said we want the swelling to reduce under new medications and not return, or worsen.
He’s one old Dude, and has overcome so much. He has a sweet old soul. He’s a bagel (basset/beagle,) a part time lap dog, part time pirate surf dog.
He’s a rescue dog, in every sense of the word. He has a strong survivor spirit – having overcome a rough start in life, glaucoma, cancer, Alzheimer’s and other health conditions. I hope and pray it's not the big C coming back. It won't be. We just won't let it.

Our dog/person family would really appreciate you keeping Dude in your thoughts. 

Here's Dude, when he fell in love with the kids, and became unofficial Homecoming King at WA State School for the Blind.

Here's Dude, when he fell in love with the kids, and became unofficial Homecoming King at WA State School for the Blind.

It’s one more message from the universe- after losing Elvis and the oil train thing. 
We were just out on the water a week ago - now this!
Remember: in a moment, everything can change.
Hug those you love. This moment is THE most important moment of all. Cherish this very moment and your loved ones in it.

- Surf dog mom Barb

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